Ummm, could you, uhh...Help a shy guy(me), tell someone else I like
them/ways to meet them?
You see, I have troubles socializing, and need some help.
I wouldn't have a clue how to start, as I am very tame, keeping pretty
much quiet almost all the time, yet I write love poems... that is, of
the love I've never had.
How many people can honestly say that "I'm 16, and never been kissed."
Well I can.
Anyway, that probably sounded real mean, so I should end now...
Lots of sixteen year old guys have never been kissed and you are not alone.
I can tell from your letter that self-esteem is an issue for you.
You seem to keep to yourself and not reach out to people very much.
Instead of making finding love your focus, try to develop your
personality to be more outgoing.
Try to smile and say hi to people, even when you don't feel like it.
Work on the parts of yourself that you like and start to try to build
friendships with both sexes.
Shyness is definitely a problem and if you can't deal with it on your
own, counseling may be helpful to you.
Remember that you don't have to be incredibly outgoing to make
friends, just show an interest in life and the people around you.
Try not to spend time so much alone but start to hook up with groups
of people in structured activities.
Many people your age are shy and frightened; they may cover it over a
little better but these feelings are universal.
Anyone who writes love poetry is warm, sensitive, feeling and caring.
I know that you have a lot to offer and you need to believe it too.
You are just the type of boy that girls would like - if only you would
let them get to know you.
Try reaching out a bit.
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
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