A while ago, my friend and I both met the same girl. She is smart,
pretty and has a great personality. But, my friend got to her before I
could and now they're a couple.
I really like this girl, on the brink of just plain love, and
recently, I'm beginning to get the feeling she likes me too.
She's been acting strange around me, paying more attention to me,
she's staying closer to me than before and the like.
My friend and I have known each other for 4 years now, he's my best frie
nd, and I don't want to do anything to disturb that friendship.
But, I want your advice on what I should do, pursue this girl at all
costs, or just step aside and let my friend keep going along.
I see this girl throughout most of my day and usually they're together
so this has been tearing me apart!
Tell me what I should do.
"Torn Apart"
Thank you
Dear "Torn Apart,"
This is such a painful situation and I wish I had better news for you.
While I do believe she is really attracted to you, there is absolutely
nothing you can or should do while they are still together.
To make a move on her at this point would betray your best friend and
you could never forgive yourself for that.
Second, if she is that unhappy, it is her responsibility to do
something about it. If she truly doesn't love him anymore, she should
not still be with him.
The best thing to do here is wait it out. My guess is that this will
not last to much longer if she really wants someone else.
You need to start seeing other people and at least fill up your hours
with things that make you feel better.
I get many letters like this. For some reasons, human beings seem to
adore triangles. Please try to move on for the time being. I really
believe that if you and this girl are "meant to be", nothing will be
able to keep you apart. If you are not, there is nothing that will
bring you together!
As far as your friend goes, tell yourself that you are glad he is
happy and that the same happiness will one day be yours whether with
this girl, or with someone much much better for you.
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
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