Dear Doctor TRuth:
Lately I've been getting a lot of guys telling me I'm hot and liking
me. I see my friends in serious relationships and it makes me feel SO
sad.
I don't know why, I've always told myself that I could do fine with
just fooling around with guys...but I have really been missing the
romance part.
I haven't dated anyone for about 1/2 a year.
The last two guys I was interested in I just went out with for one
night and never talked to them again.
All these people that have been saying they like me also won't talk to me.
I need to be in a relationship desperately.
I just need to know why all these guys are liking me but won't do
anything about it, what am I doing wrong???
Dear "Desperate,"
You obviously are a very attractive girl with no confidence in
yourself. Guys get attracted to looks and beauty but what really keeps
them interested is charm and self confidence.
Ask yourself why your self esteem is so low that you fear people
losing interest in you if they get close to you. Your not having a
relationship when you are as cute as you are is simply a matter of
lack of emotional readiness, or else, something has happened to you in
your life which has made you very afraid of getting closer to people.
What is it about yourself you don't like?
My advice is to work on your self esteem by taking extremely good care
of yourself, doing well at your life activities and being happy and
confident in who you are.
Once we have this really good relationship with ourselves, it
naturally follows that we can have a really good relationship with
someone else.
Oh, and stop looking at your friends and what they have. Everyone gets
emotionally ready for a relationship at different times.
Just take care of you and the rest will follow.
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
Lately I've been getting a lot of guys telling me I'm hot and liking
me. I see my friends in serious relationships and it makes me feel SO
sad.
I don't know why, I've always told myself that I could do fine with
just fooling around with guys...but I have really been missing the
romance part.
I haven't dated anyone for about 1/2 a year.
The last two guys I was interested in I just went out with for one
night and never talked to them again.
All these people that have been saying they like me also won't talk to me.
I need to be in a relationship desperately.
I just need to know why all these guys are liking me but won't do
anything about it, what am I doing wrong???
Dear "Desperate,"
You obviously are a very attractive girl with no confidence in
yourself. Guys get attracted to looks and beauty but what really keeps
them interested is charm and self confidence.
Ask yourself why your self esteem is so low that you fear people
losing interest in you if they get close to you. Your not having a
relationship when you are as cute as you are is simply a matter of
lack of emotional readiness, or else, something has happened to you in
your life which has made you very afraid of getting closer to people.
What is it about yourself you don't like?
My advice is to work on your self esteem by taking extremely good care
of yourself, doing well at your life activities and being happy and
confident in who you are.
Once we have this really good relationship with ourselves, it
naturally follows that we can have a really good relationship with
someone else.
Oh, and stop looking at your friends and what they have. Everyone gets
emotionally ready for a relationship at different times.
Just take care of you and the rest will follow.
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
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