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How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look away
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
So HOW do you break the ice with the SHY GUY?
How do you deal with the shy guy and draw him in?
One easy way is a big flirt with a big prop.
Something to talk about -- because you know he'll start out speechless.
If he doesn't know your name -- wear your name spelled out in bands on your wrist. Like wearing a BFF heart band. Show it to him, then take out the letters and let him try to figure out your name.
Instant fun game that takes the focus off you or him and you can laugh together as he attempts to put the letters together.
Start a conversation at school At school -- try a school topic -- latest quiz, ask a question about a topic, anything to start him talking. But make it an 'open-ended' question -- that's one that can't be answered with just a 'yes' or 'no.' Not -- just 'was the quiz hard?' But 'who writes the hardest quizzes and why' or the like.
If you're really stuck and feeling tongue-tied, get the other person to get a little involved before you try to initiate a conversation.
Simply ask them to do something for you -- something small -- like "Oops, I'm about to drop everything. Could you grab that ____ (fill in the blank) door, book, bag?"
"Just spilled my coffee, have you seen napkins around here?"
Any little question or request for help should do the trick...
How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).
A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.
Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look away
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
So HOW do you break the ice with the SHY GUY?
How do you deal with the shy guy and draw him in?
One easy way is a big flirt with a big prop.
Something to talk about -- because you know he'll start out speechless.
If he doesn't know your name -- wear your name spelled out in bands on your wrist. Like wearing a BFF heart band. Show it to him, then take out the letters and let him try to figure out your name.
Instant fun game that takes the focus off you or him and you can laugh together as he attempts to put the letters together.
Start a conversation at school At school -- try a school topic -- latest quiz, ask a question about a topic, anything to start him talking. But make it an 'open-ended' question -- that's one that can't be answered with just a 'yes' or 'no.' Not -- just 'was the quiz hard?' But 'who writes the hardest quizzes and why' or the like.
If you're really stuck and feeling tongue-tied, get the other person to get a little involved before you try to initiate a conversation.
Simply ask them to do something for you -- something small -- like "Oops, I'm about to drop everything. Could you grab that ____ (fill in the blank) door, book, bag?"
"Just spilled my coffee, have you seen napkins around here?"
Any little question or request for help should do the trick...
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